The Day of the Dead is a misnomer. It doesn’t last just a day, but three. November 2 is the main celebration, but the day before is known as Children’s Day or Day of the Little Angels (Día de los Angelitos).

Some parents who have lost children will spend this afternoon creating an altar in the graveyard or at their home (either inside or outside for everyone to see on the street). Items are left, such as favorite foods and drinks, games, toys, balloons, footballs, as well as the traditional Day of the Dead offerings. It’s a touching way to remember the children who have died.

Día de los Angelitos happens the day before the big events of November 2 because it’s said the spirits of the children are so eager to come back to the land of the living, that they run ahead of the adults, who arrive a night later.

The day is also sometimes called el Día de los Inocentes (Day of the Innocents), but this can be confused without further clarification for Mexico’s version of April Fool’s Day on December 28.

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An altar on the Day of the Dead 2010. Included are mini representations of the boy's favorite foods: Domino's pizza, Cheetos, suckers, tamales, sandwiches, hamburgers.
An altar for a boy, including mini-representations of some of his favorite things. Families who have lost children might light the altar on the night of October 31 and/or November 1 for the angelitos (little angels), who rush back home quicker than their adult counterparts, who arrive later on November 2.
Graves, which sometimes house the remains of several generations of a family, change year-to-year, perhaps to remember certain members, or simply for the chance to honor them all with new decorations, attention and maintenance.
Inside a mausoleum for a family, which was decorated on the Día de los Angelitos for a young girl.
Handmade decorations light up an altar for a baby on a tomb in the Ajijic, Jalisco, graveyard.
Handmade decorations and candles light up an altar with toy blocks that spell “B-A-B-Y” on a tomb in the graveyard in Ajijic, Jalisco.
Grave with balloons for a child on the Día de los Angelitos in Mexico.
A colorful grave with balloons remembering a child during the Day of the Dead in Jalisco, Mexico.
An altar at a grave for a seven-year-old boy on the night of November 1.
A display created on the Día de los Angelitos for a seven-year-old boy named Denny, created in the graveyard in Ajijic, Jalisco.
Graveyard display for Children's Day in Ajijic, Jalisco.
A November 1st Children’s Day display during the Days of the Dead in Ajijic, Jalisco.
A candlelit ofrenda on the Noche de los Angelitos in the graveyard in Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico.
A candlelit ofrenda on the Noche de los Angelitos in the graveyard in Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico.
A grave with toys on November 1 in Ajijic, Mexico.
A grave with toys on November 1 in Ajijic, Mexico.
Grave decorated for el Día de los Angelitos in the graveyard in Ajijic, Jalisco.
Decorations on a grave decorated for el Día de los Angelitos in Ajijic, Mexico.
Day of the Dead altar for family, friends and a grandson in Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico.
An altar for family, friends and a young grandson on el Día de los Angelitos in Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico.
Toys left on a grave on the Day of the Dead in Ajijic, Jalisco. November 1 is called Día de los Angelitos and families build altars in the afternoon for deceased children in the family.
Toys left on a headstone on November 1 during the Days of the Dead in Jalisco, Mexico.
Mari Huizar paints her family's plot in the cemetery on the Day of the Innocents 2018. Her young disabled daughter died in the previous year.
Mari Huizar paints her family’s plot in the cemetery on the Day of the Innocents 2018. Her young disabled daughter died in the previous year. She asked me to come back later that night to take photos of it lit with candles, but I couldn’t make it back. I’ll go again in 2019 to take the photo and see how she has decorated the grave this year.
Mari's family helps clean and decorate the grave.
Mari’s family helps clean and decorate the grave.
The grave for Mari's daughter, Rosario Guadalupe Rodríguez Huizar, March 8, 2009 - February 2, 2018. Photo taken in 2019.
The grave for Mari’s daughter, Rosario Guadalupe Rodríguez Huizar, March 8, 2009 – February 2, 2018. Photo taken in 2019.